You Stifle Your Own Motivation. Here's 3 Reasons Why...

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Now on to today's post. 

There will consistently be times throughout your life when you need to perform undertakings that you regard undesirable for one reason or another i.e. working with a colleague you don't care for, going to chip away at Mondays, taking the trash out, heading to meet the parents in law at the air terminal, eating with the life partner's companions... 😐 Doing these things just siphons whatever motivation you have inside you and causes you to feel miserable, worn out, heartbroken, even irritated. In any case, did you realize that there are additionally things inside you that really make it hard to feel energized and energetic? Get the chance to become familiar with the elements that make you difficult to motivate: 


Your mentality is a main consideration that can make you difficult to motivate. This is on the grounds that it can seriously restrain your comprehension of the world and all encounters when all is said and done. Your attitude can now and again be made out of development restraining convictions, preferences, inclinations and standards. 

On the off chance that, for instance, you accept that no good thing can come out of your staff, you'll neglect to see that there is a representative there that really has the leadership potential. On the off chance that you won't accept that you can really write for a celebrated magazine since you're an individual from a small community, you'll pass up a chance to uncover your ability and receive its benefits. 


We as a whole have certain impediments in our brains. These cutoff points are things we settle on dependent on our very own convictions, morals and principles. Inside these cutoff points, we feel good in and can basically do as we like. 

When we approach the external edges, we start to feel uneasiness, bashfulness, shame or inconvenience. We don't wish to go further on the grounds that we don't care for what we don't have the foggiest idea or haven't experienced. Since we have a dread of the unknown, we'd preferably remain inside our comfort zones since we have a sense of security there. 

The issue here is that a limited safe place can be a central point that makes you difficult to motivate. Each time you are given another thought or experience, you verify whether it fits into your usual range of familiarity. On the off chance that it doesn't, at that point you essentially reject, no questions asked. This is deplorable in light of the fact that huge numbers of these thoughts and encounters can be beneficial for you. Be that as it may, you'll most likely never know since you don't have the motivation to attempt them. 


Did you get burned by the oven? That is most likely why you would rather not cook. Did your previous managers neglect to show gratefulness for your hard work? That is most likely one reason behind why you don't feel motivated about your job. 

Your experience of individual, social and expert encounters  has a great deal to do with how you choose things throughout your life. They can likewise be factors that make you difficult to motivate. In the event that these encounters are negative, they will in general make you increasingly reluctant and uncertain of yourself since they influence your confidence and certainty. 

On the off chance that, for instance, you've just been met with dismissal or mocking in your life, it wouldn't be difficult to suppose you don't feel a solid need to exceed expectations or to develop yourself. You'll likely be thinking, 'So what? Nothing I could possibly do was acceptable in any case. For what reason would things change now?' 

Unless you intentionally put forth an attempt to recognize these past encounters and afterward refuse to let them rule your life, you will consistently be difficult to motivate.

When it's all said and done, don't let what hurts you, break you. Use that as motivation to be and do better. The only thing in life that you can control is yourself. Don't be the reason you can't succeed in life. 

So what do you guys think? Does this empower you and set you on the right path to follow your dreams. Drop your personal tips in the comments!

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